Think about it, worry projects worry on the person you say I am worried about you, it takes away their power, or attempt to, as THEY have CHOICE and you want to cast doubt due to your own fears and insecurities. You cause them to question what they know is best for them. Yes they choose to “let you” thing is, most don’t know that is what is happening.
They make choices in their life and your “worry” does not “help” them with these choices it aims to disempower. Your worry is a guilt and shame tool to get others to do what you think is best for them, or for you or for them to act or be the version of them that you are more comfortable with.
Instead talk it out with them, give them a sounding board per say, not your WORRY.
Worry is Useless in your personal life and in the I am so worried for you line that you throw out there.
Some say well my intention is loving, I worry about you because I love you. Not true, most worry about me, about others to comfort themselves and because they are afraid they may face what I am, or because they need the comfort in themselves to know they projected worry and so they did something. Really it is not high vibration helpful.
You worry about someone for YOU, because you are addicted to worry and controlling others. You are use to projecting outside of yourself, instead of knowing your own beliefs and truth and creating the reality you want to live in and even the version of that person you worry about. You are responsible for your thoughts and beliefs no one else and in this you also cannot be another, it is their thoughts and beliefs that create their reality and your WORRY is not Helpful, it’s just not.
Is there an Action you can take? Can you help them with Food, Money, or Housing? Can you send an inspiring quote? How about an encouraging uplifting song or video? Can you do something to help them Raise their Vibration and Improve their life? If you can then DO IT. If you can’t then don’t however when you keep saying I am worried about you, you are creating low self esteem, self doubt in people who are not mentally strong.
Yes again they let you, thing is, so many are not awake and don’t get that is what is happening. They simply doubt themself, get depressed, want to die, can’t fix the issue and want to please you so they have constant mental torment.
Another example of this.
I KNOW Cancer is Curable I have consulted dozens to cure themselves of Cancer, there are millions who have cured themselves, so if they did you can.
Thing is I have known many who have died, as they studied, believed and knew for sure what to do, but their “family” in the name of Love and I am So Worried about you, YOU must do CHEMO, you must do what the Doctors say as I worry, we worry and we want you to live. The person crumbles at the family pressure called love and worry and they are tormented with chemo and radiation and then died. They lived a life that was to please the other people controlling them, as they could not take the gult and shame called Love and Worry.
The chemo caused the body and immune failure and the people died a painful death. They did not want to be radiated, and take chemo but they were not mentally strong enough to stand up to the WORRY of family.
This is also why many commit suicide. The family member or partner is so worried about them, and they can’t find their own voice in the constant worry and guilt and shame and death feels like the only way out, they don’t know they can remove those people from their life and make their own choices. They don’t know that they really do know what’s best for them and this is more IMPORTANT than the worries of the controllers who can only create their own reality and really “should” focus on their own body, life, reality and not constant WORRY of others personal choices and boundaries.
Please Don’t Worry about those you LOVE, as that is not Unconditional Love, it is Controlling and is of no help.
It would be better to talk about things they love, share ideas, give them ideas and information if you have it, if they need money and you have it give it or don’t if you don’t, but Worry does not help and in fact causes severe emotional stress on the person you keep telling your worried about them or your worried if they do this or don’t do that.
Keep Your Worries and TAKE ACTION.
~Reverend Crystal Cox
