It is not enough to have a partner who "supports" your views and belief system. Living with someone who has a dramatically different spiritual and lifestyle belief is constantly oppressive. I still find it so odd when people say well he is very supportive of my pursuit of this or that. Though he don't believe in it, validate it, trust it nor believe it has any merit what so ever based in reality, he is supportive that she does it. To me it is so oppressive if you are trying to live a healthy life for you and your partner does not "believe in" say organic eating, spiritual beliefs or other things that are important to you. Is it really love and a relationship or is it tolerating and supporting each others VAST and dramatic differences. It is very hard to build a life of your total belief system when your partner is "ok" with you doing it, and "supportive" but basically thinks it's full of shit and does not believe in it. This is not a way of life that will move you into the lifestyle you truly want to be living.  ~ Reverend Crystal Cox.